I was pretty excited when J told me this past Friday, that he was going to get off work early on Saturday, and wanted to hang out that night. So, like the dumbass I am, I went shopping at Marshalls after work to look for some cute outfits. I ended up finding a bunch of cute items (one of which I planned on wearing Saturday night) and only spent $40.
Saturday evening comes and we actually had my aunt's wedding at my house at 5:30. So that was nice and we had a big Mexican feast after. I got to visit with all my cousins that I don't get to see often. Anyway, 8:45pm comes and here are the texts that follow:
8:45pm Me: You still want me to come out?
9:08pm J: Idk what I'm even doing yet. I will text you when I find out.
Uhhh alright, DICK! Thought you were going to be hanging out with me.
10:01pm Me: Alright..
In the meantime, while waiting to hear from his dumbass, I decided to join my best friend, Kelly, at her house. I picked up wine on the way and we just watched movies. Then.......
11:24pm J: Damn i am fucked upp. What r u doin
12:02am J: Whast upp
12:10am Me: Drinking wine at Kelly's.
12:12am J: Oh nice. Im dlightly intoxciated. Sorry for texting uu back so late. If u wann come up u caan
12:22am Me: You live an hour away.. It's too late
12:24am J: Ok. Sorry it was so latte geting back too u
12:26am J: Even if i give u money for gas?
12:34am Me: Well I've been drinking wine because I assumed you didn't want me to come up.. And I don't want to drive an hour with alcohol in my system.
12:36am J: Oh ok. Im sorry i drank alot between 10 and 11 thats whaat the delay wasd
12:45am Me: Meh, no big deal
1:35am J: What r u doin now
1:40am Me: Watching South Park with Kelly.. About to go home.
1:41am J: Ahh ok. Yeah I'm drunk and laying in bed now
1:55am Me: Fun.
1:57am J: Ehh not really. I don't have a girl with a big booty next to me in bed
2:09am Me: Yep I'm about to crawl in bed alone too.
I can't even tell you how pissed off and disappointed I was. Thank God Kelly was home or I would've sat in my room and cried while watching Grey's Anatomy all night. He treated me like a fucking booty call after we already had set plans. I'm taking a BIG step back from him. I'm just glad I had enough sense to tell him no.
But my main thing is, we had plans. I don't care if he was out with his friends drinking, I could've met him at the bar he was at. But no, he decided that was much more important and I could wait till nearly 12:30am to drive a whole fucking hour. I don't think so buddy.
The thing is, I do like him. But, what he did was incredibly disrespectful, in my opinion.
Anyone have any advice?
Should I kick him to the curb?
Or maybe give him another chance (while playing hard to get and being too busy for him to teach him a lesson)? Any suggestions are greatly appreciated! :)